What do you do when your OH is not "onboard"?

[Highlander]

dont give up........... try different ways of doing it.

Maybe talk about something, and purposely get your facts wrong, he may well know you are wrong and want to correct you,.. take the conversation a bit further, by asking how he would solve/ prepare for it better?,.... this kind of ploy often works if it comes from him himself,... I dont know, is he maybe a little defensive that you, his wife, is trying to do the protecting?... would he feel different if he was doing more `his` way

I wish you luck