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RE: I'm positive that you're negative - MaryN - 25 September 2013 (25 September 2013, 10:23)Scythe13 Wrote: Good that you've already addressed these issues mate. Crikey, Scythe, are you for real?? RE: I'm positive that you're negative - Kiril - 25 September 2013 In such situations when I feel down I try to hide it but it turns out I am a terrible actor. RE: I'm positive that you're negative - Skean Dhude - 25 September 2013 (25 September 2013, 18:46)Highlander Wrote: Everyone seems to be talking `individuals` yet if you are a member of a team or group then I am not sure if there should be such a thing as an individual. A group or team is made up of individuals and like I said if one is down then the others will accept it. What we are talking about are those that people don't want on their team. The team dies. RE: I'm positive that you're negative - Scythe13 - 26 September 2013 (25 September 2013, 20:51)MaryN Wrote:(25 September 2013, 10:23)Scythe13 Wrote: Good that you've already addressed these issues mate. Yes, 100% real. What's so "Crikey" about that. She ends up feeling really guilty when she is being a b***h and realises. So by telling her sooner it lets her know that I recognise she's having a bad day and is venting, but that she'll feel bad taking it out on me. Then she just takes a step back and feels less guilty. Same as if I'm being a c**k. She'll tell me. I'll put my hands up and apologise. More importantly though, I'll be better at recognising when I'm being like that in the future. You always hurt the ones you're closest to, right? Then you feel like a [insert expletive] afterwards. We just let each other know when we're hurting each other. That's not that weird is it? RE: I'm positive that you're negative - BeardyMan - 26 September 2013 "You don't have time to be happy / sad / slightly emotional. You've got stuff to be getting on with, so man up and do it, or fuck off" I'm not the kind, caring sort. RE: I'm positive that you're negative - Skean Dhude - 26 September 2013 Scythe, No its not weird and although not the only way it works fine. We can all handle a bit of negativity. It's just when it is full on and all the time. RE: I'm positive that you're negative - MaryN - 27 September 2013 I suspect that, post SHTF, depression is going to become a real problem. I don't mean the "someone has unliked me on Facebook" type of depression, I mean PTSD - post adrenalin terrors - when the reality dawns on people exactly what has happened. This is not something that can be planned for, and to be honest, I think it will be a serious situation for anyone who either goes down with it or has a close family member/friend with the problem. After all, if your mind says "sod this, I'm off" there's not much you do. No psychiatric help will be available - not that it is particularly useful - and it will be a real drain/fear for others. I have no idea how people will cope. |