Can I just say

[Ferret]

I've been online since 1992 and I've been a member of a huge number of groups over the years and this is one of only a handful where I have felt the welcome to be genuine and where there is no *crap* (not sure what I can or can't say so sorry if I can't and I won't do it again) I know that I am probably very different from you all, you have a lot more experience than I, and I am a middle aged middle class mum, the kind of person that many people would dismiss but none of you did and I am very grateful for that.