personal security

[grumpy old man]

if you start look around at clubs and class in the area that you live in you should find a good instructor and ju jitsu has so many parts to it, any body can try and learn fitness comes in time and a person in a wheel chair can do it, young or old. it's called a gentle art but is far from that if you don't know it.
a .357 is a good choice but i like a .50 egale, more stopping power for the man in front of you and the one behind him