HN's home security scenario

[grumpy old man]

thanks NR for trying to answer the post i left, i do know the answers but the question and point i was trying to make is we can't go on for ever alone not trusting each other just waiting for something to happen
by then we can't trust any one we will have too much to lose if we make the wrong choice? we all carry hope that after an event things will go back to some kind of paceful place and if we don't hurt no one then no one will hurt us
and by thinking like this we paint a future that we can live in that will fit us?
a wise man once told me the key to survival is HOPE the believe that we will be saved at the end of that horrible hard time and we can have a good time again
but what if the future is not how we think it should be and can't get it our way how long we put up with the shit and hartache before we lose the will to live.
now if any of are family take ill we have hospitals, doctors and everthing to treat us i could go on with examples but in a broken world our chances go down fast.
prepping for little hard times is fine bad winters etc. and self sur is all good but the thought of the end times i think a lot of people wont be able to handle it even the ones who have a plan.
i'am canny crap at getting my point over with works ahhhhh!
i hope you understand what i am trying to get across