TBH I don't think there is anything that sets our house apart from any of the others, sure there are some fruit bushes in the front garden but their all mixed in with other foliage so I don't think anyone would know they were there and anyway this time of year its all pruned down anyway. same crappy windows as everyone else( window blinds are being fitted on Monday), same crappy front door as everyone else (Housing Association), we are not overlooked either front or back, if anything WE are the ones doing the overlooking!

as far as our BOL is concerned that's on a rural back road, over a mile from any other road, and only 2 other properties(well away from the BOL) plenty of firewood, game and water...looks like any other old rural cottage, very overgrown and run down.
Some people that prefer to be alone arent anti-social they just have no time for drama, stupidity and false people.