taking leadership

[Rush2112]

(9 April 2014, 11:57)Midnitemo Wrote: In my opinion the best leaders show no remorse , they make the call , wether its a good or bad outcome they just push on and don't dwell on shit...I'm not saying stuff doesn't bother them its just you as the subordinates don't ever get to see it.

This is how it is at work for me now, not puffing myself up, but I do manage a small group. Telling someone they just lost their job is never fun. Post event if we end up in a group I would not want the responsibilty. My family is enough to worry about.

Not really interested in being led by the nose by someone else either. I too fancy myself an amateur historian and find that most natural leaders are despots and simply have their own best interests in mind.

I dont have all the answers but see a structure once the dust settles whereas individuals are responsible for certain things with helpers (like cooking, security, sanitation, food procurement/production, etc) Depending on the size of the group there could be like a council of elders where each family gets one representative with one vote, or if a smaller group every adult gets a say. There would have to be some kind of council leader though to get things done.