Sold my Surf
didn't want to, but can't fit 3 car seats in it, so was effectively useless to me. And can't really afford to run two cars.
Been missing the RWD fun though, so thinking about a Jimny for me and the boy. Rip out back seats, get some MT tyres on there. And it's as narrow as a fat lad on a moped.
Best way to improve your off road driving skills is to practice. I've lived all over the country and have always found somewhere to give it a blast off road. Just don't get stuck with the wife and kids in the car...