i have no kids, OH has a daughter with family of her own, they live 25 miles away in Barnstaple, we dont have the space for them here-they have a bigger house than we do! sister in law lives in a small town 13 miles from here(she thinks she's going to share with the neighbours and vice versa
), lets see, married cousin lives about 20 miles away on a farm complex, widowed half sister lives near Maidenhead in her own ex council flat...she is the only one i'd be really worried about as she is not that far from Londonistan (she's 72!) and all the problems that brings!
Some people that prefer to be alone arent anti-social they just have no time for drama, stupidity and false people.