What do you do when your OH is not "onboard"?

[NorthernRaider]

Try the economics method (darling if we buy a wood burner and solar panels means no monthly energy bills (only slight fib))
The seduction method (FtoM)" gosh its so manly seeing all these preps in place to protect us, watching you split logs or practice with your bow is a turn on. (MtoF) Darling you are the perfect woman no only are you gorgous but so talented, from doing your job to home making to the canning and medical skills and the way you tend the herb garden is great"
The ignore method " just do it yourself"
The blackmail method " no preps no nookie"
The bribe method " You wanna motorbike, I want a wood burner and chickens"
The upgrade method " get divorced and marry a prepper"