Buggin in or out??

[BFG Central]

Im new to the forum and i was wondering what people plan to do if the SHTF?

I plan to bug in due to the family and being based between Coventry and Birmingham i dont stand a chance heading for the hills with the family.
I do have a fall back BOL if all else fails.

I know every ones situation is different so im not knocking anyone who plans to bug out as they could be living in a possible hell hole if the SHTF.

The other reason i ask this question is that id love to have some like minded people on door step to join forces with now and in the future, I dont think the lone wolf attitude will work.
Were only human and we cant stay wake 24/7 doing everything on our own for ever.

Ok i have to admit that my own personal frustration.
I know for a fact that there is a prepper/survivalist that lives 5 miles away for where i live and he plans to bug out (nothing wrong with that)
But i have land and a house big enough for at least another 2-3 families to live in and i have a natural spring on my land and im putting in place other things like producing my own power, crops, seeds, chickens, iv just butchered my own pigs etc....etc
The guy in question has a 4x4 and little else to his name.
He plans to drag his family into the middle of no where with very few supplies with no exact area in mind as a BOL.
Im sure he has his reasons and i will leave him to that.

But i would still love to have people locally to join forces with.