TSHTF for me on 13/9/2015

[Scythe13]

I am so sorry for your loss. Like MB said, those whom have endure can get an idea, but we do not truly know your feelings.

Coming through something like that is the hardest thing, and we can never know what you're going through. Our hearts here at house-S13 are with you both, and you are all in my prayers.

We managed to get pregnant on our Iceland holiday in Jan, but we lost a baby during the pregnancy and have not been the same since. The emptiness is hard to deal with. But it's like when my father passed away 2 weeks before we got married, it never truly heals. You never get over it. We just learn to live with the pain.

One lovely idea we had was to name a star after the lost baby. Whether the naming a star thing is real or not, it doesn't matter. The feeling that they're up there looking down…that's what helps us in the hard days. His name was Vik, after the beach in Iceland. It will never bring them back, but being able to have that as a memory, that can help. It may not be for everyone, but it worked a little for us.

Like MB says, if you need to talk or vent, please feel free to PM me.