(25 September 2013, 20:51)MaryN Wrote: (25 September 2013, 10:23)Scythe13 Wrote: Good that you've already addressed these issues mate.
The wife and I have very similar strategies. Once in a blue moon I'll have a bad day, but after that, right as rain, energy and motivation of the group. Same with her, when she has her B moments, I say "You're being uncool. You're in one of your B moods and you're going to regret it." Shortly after she will turn round and apologise, and we'll be back to normal.
Crikey, Scythe, are you for real??
Yes, 100% real. What's so "Crikey" about that.
She ends up feeling really guilty when she is being a b***h and realises. So by telling her sooner it lets her know that I recognise she's having a bad day and is venting, but that she'll feel bad taking it out on me. Then she just takes a step back and feels less guilty.
Same as if I'm being a c**k. She'll tell me. I'll put my hands up and apologise. More importantly though, I'll be better at recognising when I'm being like that in the future.
You always hurt the ones you're closest to, right? Then you feel like a [insert expletive] afterwards. We just let each other know when we're hurting each other.
That's not that weird is it?
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